Monday, April 30, 2012

Have teens, will travel

By the time you read this, I’ll be working my way down I-65, heading toward Atlanta. This is not a normal, family trip. Of course, none of our family trips is normal, but I digress… No, this time Sean and I are chaperones of nine teenagers who are thrilled to be skipping school this week to participate in their Senior Trip.

So far, so good. Sean and I knew several of the kids before we left, but four were only names to us until we met them in the Walmart parking lot yesterday. All are friends of Michael, and we’re pleased to say he has good taste in friends.

That is not to say they are not, well, unique. Of course, our son leads the pack in that definition, so we’ll leave it at that.

Amy is also along, despite her sophomore status. The trip is heavy on testosterone, so Michael asked Amy to come along to keep the one senior girl company. And just before we left, they asked another young lady, a junior, to come, so we have three girls and six boys. A seventh gentleman is meeting us in Atlanta tomorrow. Our 15 passenger van is going to be very full and very fun.

Rebecca is enjoying a week with the grandparents. She is fine. No question about that.

So was driving 400 miles with a bunch of my kids’ friends, eating at McDonalds and Wendy’s on my dream agenda for my 42nd birthday? Nope. But that’s just because I hadn’t done it before. Turns out, it was quite a spectacular birthday after all.

And I only made them listen to one Amy Grant album. But it was my birthday, after all!

Taking a picture of them was a lot like trying to herd cats...


My son's birthday wishes to me, drawn on my jewelry box. Guess I need to dust...

Friday, April 27, 2012

Friday, finally

In the next few hours, I'll put one child on a plane, take one to get her hair done, take pictures of the oldest two leaving for their spring formal, then head to said formal with my cute date to chaperone. It's going to be a busy one!

A chuckle is in order:

(HT: Christine T.)

And with camping season rapidly approaching, I feel the need to remind everyone how I feel about it:


(HT: Amy K.)

We saw HPA's production of Fiddler on the Roof last night in Kalamazoo. It was wonderful! The bottle dance was amazing and the leads were great. Another fabulous HPA show! Wanna go? Get your tickets here.

Happy weekend, everyone!



Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Long at last

I have written a lot about my hair. Way too much. Seriously, how much can someone write about her hair? Apparently, one more post will do the trick. Until another post is needed…

Anyway, I was looking at some of the pictures from show week and realized that my dear friend, Amber, took a picture of us this year that made me remember a picture of us from last year. So I went digging through my digital files and found it.

Here's last year's:



And here's this year's:



First of all, Amber is as beautiful this year as last. Loved her makeup this year - she was Glinda and she was fabulous!

As for me: can you believe my hair has grown so much? I know, me neither! 

I have dear daughter Amy and hairstylist Misty to thank; neither would let me cut it. Even when I went to my hair appointments begging Misty to chop it all off, she was firm: "You've come this far. Don't blow it now." When I would complain at home, Amy, ever patient, would pat my back and say, "It's growing. Be patient."

It took a full year, but I have finally accomplished the goal of growing out my hair. I can pull it all into a pony tail, a feat last accomplished in 1980. Of course, is it really a good idea to go back to the hair style I had when Carter was president?

At least I don't have the perm.

But man, I loved those curls...



Monday, April 23, 2012

First born's birthday

Yesterday was a major milestone in our family and I did not cry once. Talk about some immense personal growth.


Michael turned 18 yesterday. Even as I typed 18, I thought, “Can that really be correct? Eighteen years old?” I mean, I know the dates April 22, 1994 – April 22, 2012 do, indeed indicate an 18 year time span. And he’s a high school senior, which means it’s reasonable to assume he’s 18. And he’s taller than both his parents… that one doesn’t count because he’s been taller than us for two years.  

I can’t deny it; the boy’s 18.

Each day, I’m becoming more and more like those old people who used to drive me crazy – you know, those people who said, “Well, I can hardly believe how old you’re getting. My, my, time certainly does fly!” Yep. I’m one of those people now.

Where did the last 18 years go?

When he was a baby and cried and cried and cried, I was sure he would cry forever. When he started school, I was sure we’d be doing school together forever. When he got his license, I was confident he’d drive into my driveway forever.  But something clicked for me when Rebecca put 18 candles on 18 cupcakes yesterday. All the time I thought I had is quickly slipping away.

But I didn’t cry. Because the little guy I brought home from the hospital 18 years ago has turned into a more wonderful human being than I dared pray for. It’s really hard to be sad when faced with someone so beautiful.

As I was thinking those lovely, proud mommy thoughts, he informed me that it is now legal for him to buy cigarettes and lottery tickets.

Oh, yes. He's 18.

Happy birthday, Michael!

Still excited for Hot Wheels





Friday, April 20, 2012

Hunger Games, diet Coke and Pandas

I'm surprised there's not a Hunger Games board game yet:



This is beyond perfect:


(HT: ladies who lunch)

Those purple pandas are scary:



Happy weekend!

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Cookies and crackers and bacon, oh my!

When I was consumed with Oz last week, Sean was home holding down the fort. I had planned to stock the fridge and pantry before show week, but best laid plans and all that. So I’d left him with half a gallon of milk, some cereal and the leftovers from Easter dinner.

Thankfully, I married a man who does not mind doing a bit of grocery shopping, so I knew he’d pick up whatever he needed. What I’d forgotten, though, is that what he thinks he needs is vastly different from what I think he needs.

Yesterday, as I was entering in the receipts from last week, I ran across several from the local grocery store from the few trips Sean made while I was at play practice:


Looked like any of the other Meijer receipts I've entered over the years. But then I looked more closely:


Remember when I said what I think Sean needs is vastly different from what Sean thinks he needs? See any fruits or vegetables on here? 

I have no idea what the man ate last week, but apparently it consisted of milk, crackers, cookies, bacon and sausage. I think Michael must have been involved. The Cheez-its give him away.


Monday, April 16, 2012

Where I've Been

Since last September, each Friday you could find me at rehearsal for Homeschool Performing Arts' production of The Wizard of Oz. For seven months, 95 middle and high school students have learned lines, songs and choreography. They have worked diligently with little complaint. And I had the privilege of being there every step of the way as the production manager.

Last week all that hard work paid off and we lived in Oz for four performances. Saturday night’s performance was simply magical.

Saturday was bittersweet for me because that was the last time all five Duffy’s will perform together with HPA. I cried (surprise!) a good portion of the day, but by the time the curtain closed, I was dry-eyed. I’m sure that won’t last.

I have truly fallen in love with Dorothy, Scarecrow, Tin Man and Lion and all the Ozians, Munchkins, Winkies, Monkeys, Jitterbugs and Kansans. I will miss them so much. 


It was a wonderful weekend, and I'm already having Oz withdrawals. Can't wait to see the DVD!



Rebecca as a member of the Lullaby League

Amy as Snow, with Amber as Glinda and Jillian, another Snow

Amy as a Jitterbug (front row, 4th from the right)

Michael as a Winkie

Michael as Uncle Henry, and dear friend Elizabeth as Aunt Em

Cast, crew, orchestra and HPA staff - that is a stinkin' lot of people! Love them all.


Many thanks to Kari Alvaro, Matt Rider and Amber Keilen for the use of their pictures.









Monday, April 09, 2012

Only Partly Mis

Five tickets to Les Misérables was my Christmas present to the family, a secret I actually kept from August to December, a feat not heard of in my world. (That is a crazy-long sentence.) I am terrible about surprises; as soon as I buy a gift I want to give it. And I really wanted to let Amy know I’d gotten her the tickets because she was begging me to take her to Grand Rapids where Les Mis was playing before Christmas. I finally had to say, “We’re not going!” to get her off my back. I’m still amazed I kept the secret…

Anyway, we went to the show on Friday and it was fantastical. The singers were absolutely amazing. The sets – phenomenal. Orchestra? Astounding. The dialogue? Non-existent, which was a little hard for me. The constant singing – really? Couldn’t someone just say something without rhyming, just once?

Okay, okay, I know that’s part of the show, but still…

Most everyone who’s ever mentioned Les Mis to me has raved about what a fabulous show it is. And while all the various production values are, indeed, beyond belief, I really don’t understand the gushing about the story. And by story, I mean the 17 different stories going on – there’s the criminal who steals from the priest but the priest doesn’t turn him in, the young revolutionaries set to free France, a whole bunch of prostitutes singing about their job, the young man in love with a young girl, the other girl who loves the guy who loves the young girl, the foul inn keepers singing about stealing from their customers, the mom who gives up her daughter to the care of others because the dad left… Y’all, that is a lot to follow. Especially when no one’s talking and everything is in song and half the time three people are singing three different songs all at the same time.

I was exhausted by intermission.

Despite the confusion of multiple story lines, I was moved by the songs and powerful orchestration. I thought I would burst into tears when the girl who loves the guy who loves the other girl sang, “On My Own.” Seriously amazing.

I’m glad I went (probably would have left Rebecca at home if I’d known more about The Master of the House scene) and I’m glad I can now say I’ve seen Les Mis. But after all that death and dying and heartbreak, I am really looking forward to Wicked this July. Nothing like a little Dancing Through Life to pick up the weary-hearted.

Sunday, April 08, 2012

Secret Ambition

Nobody knew his secret ambition was to give his life away.



Definitely one of my favorite Easter songs. (Just ignore the staging, corny ending and two crazy guys in red.)

He is risen! Hallelujah!


Friday, April 06, 2012

Oh, there's my desk...

Between this:




And this:


I have gotten precious little done this week. Including cooking for this:



Or cleaning this:
Obviously not my house. Look how clean it is.


Now that I've finally finished the trilogy and Oz practice is done for the week, I'll reintroduce myself to my family and attempt to clean the house.

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If you're in the Lansing area and don't have a church home, please join us this Sunday morning. Happy Easter weekend!



Monday, April 02, 2012

Hungry for the Games

A few months ago, Amy asked if she could read a book recommended to her by a friend. I’d not heard of it, so off to the internet I went to do a little research. And what I read freaked me out.

“You want to read a book about kids killing each other?!”

And that’s how the fascination with The Hunger Games started at our house.

Amy assured me that many of her friends had read the book. And many of her friends’ moms had read it, too. I’m really not sure why I said, “Yes,” but I did, and Amy devoured the trilogy in a week. When the movie came out, she arranged a movie night for the youth group to see it opening weekend

And then she started telling me to read it.

Last week, I gave in and cracked open the book. I still had concerns that I’d a) let my baby read a book about children killing each other and b) let my baby organize a movie night where other people’s babies watched a movie about children killing each other. I began the book, hopeful I hadn’t made some horrific mistake.

I finished the first book in two days. Two days later, I finished book two. I started the final book in the trilogy last night, and it is a dadgum miracle I’ve done anything at all productive today, because all I want to do is read the book. Amy told me I should just give in and finish it, because until I do I won’t be able to stop thinking about it.

She is right.

For the two people in the universe who haven’t heard of The Hunger Games, it’s a book about life in a post-apocalyptic country called Panem.  The country has an annual game where a boy and girl from each of the country’s 12 districts compete to the death, thus reminding the citizens that anything resembling a previous rebellion will not be tolerated. We see the events unfold through 16 year old Katniss Everdeen’s eyes, one of the 24 who will play in the Hunger Games.

Yep. It’s a book about children killing children. And it is as horrifying as it sounds. But it’s more than that. It is part social commentary and part science-fiction. And it’s a really, really engaging story.

Quite honestly, I’m shocked the conservative community didn’t go the whole, “Boycott The Hunger Games,” route. It went nuts over Harry Potter and his magic; I am positively amazed that didn’t happen with these books. Unless we’ve actually learned a valuable lesson. That sometimes, scary, dangerous material can actually teach us. That reading about pretend struggles of good vs. evil will actually help us as we battle our very real struggles. That what’s horrible in a work of fiction may not be so far from reality and it could serve as a wake-up call.

I haven’t finished the third book, but I am banking on good winning in the end. Not sure, exactly, what that will look like in this case, but I surely do hope Katniss and Gale and Peeta figure out how to live together. And that two of those three live more together than they do at the end of Book 2.